It's my birthday, so a little self-reflection is in order.
This isn't a "big one," though they do tend to get bigger as they go. But it's as good a time as any to check in with myself and see how I'm doing:
Never as well as I mean to.
Always better than I could be doing, I suppose.
If I compare my real self to my ideal self, I'll never be satisfied, so I'd best leave that alone. I try not to compare myself to other people because someone, somewhere, said that wasn't nice. But in my not-so-nice/a.k.a. normal human moments I know I do better than some people. I do worse than others.
Maybe comparisons aren't a good idea. Maybe they're irrelevant.
The question is, am I happy? The answer is, yes. Grateful? Yes, yes, yes.
Speaking of which, John turned me on to
this song.
I know you guys and you're all going to say lovely things (okay,
most a few of you are going to say lovely things) and wish me a happy birthday. Thank you! Please tell us, also, how you reflect on yourself, when you self-reflect.